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Hard to believe, but Thanksgiving is almost here for 2022. And to help us enter into that season with the best possible frame of mind, I'm sharing this memo digging deeper than usual into what Paul had to say about gratitude. Enjoy!

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Gratitude is an important part of life. A life full of gratitude is happier, more content, and more peaceful than a life without it. The word doesn't appear in the King James version of the Bible, but the concept is certainly there. Repeatedly, we're called to live our life with a spirit of thankfulness. In fact, I believe it's an essential part of the Christian walk.

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To understand true biblical gratitude, however, it may help to consider what I call the three levels of gratitude.

Level 1. Customary Gratitude

The first level of gratitude involves those times we make some expression of gratitude out of habit. We don't even think about it.

Someone says bless you, when you sneeze. It just pops out: "thank you". Someone lets you cut in on a busy intersection, and you give a quick wave of appreciation to the driver. Someone gives an unexpected present, and you say, "wow, thanks" before you know what is inside, or if you are going to like it.

These are simple customary responses. There's no strong feeling involved, it's simple politeness, courtesy. These are pretty much automatic.

I have some of those smart speaker devices in my home, and find myself saying thank you to it, when it turns off a light or answers some question for me! I know it is just a gadget, but it's a habit.

There's nothing wrong with this kind of gratitude. And in fact it can go a long way to improving the relationships in our life.

Taking the time to read the card on a birthday present before tearing into the wrapping paper--better still, sending a thank you card back. It helps the giver feels their gift was appreciated. Bringing a small gift for the hostess when invited to a meal. It makes the host feel special, and they may just invite you back again. Filling up the tank with gas before returning a car to someone kind enough to let you borrow it. It keeps them from grumbling about an empty tank the next day.

Learning these simple, customary, more or less automatic acts of gratitude can smooth a lot of social interactions. People notice politeness, and it opens up opportunities. Being rude, does the opposite. It closes doors.

So I'm all for basic common courtesy, general politeness, customary gratitude. And it's one thing I like about Thanksgiving--it's a custom that just automatically gets scheduled in every year.

Level 2. Emotional Gratitude

But there's more to gratitude than these simple habits, and customs. There's a level of gratitude where we actually feel a strong appreciation towards someone.

We've all felt this at times, haven't we? Someone gives an especially thoughtful gift, performs a special act of service, says something really nice to us. It warms our heart. We feel happy. There's an emotional response. And if we express that gratitude, some of that warmth goes back to the person who blessed us.

Now typically, this kind of gratitude is linked most strongly to material things. If you ask a group of people sitting around the table to share what they are thankful for, you will get a variety of common answers: their family, the food, a warm house, a reliable car, our jobs, our toys, our pets. Invariably, the answers will tend toward physical, tangible, concrete kinds of things.

The problem with linking gratitude to possessions however is that our gratitude tends to go up or down depending on the thickness of our wallet. A financial setback, leaves us upset about what we've lost, rather than thankful for what we retain. Go without a raise for awhile, and we lose our appreciation for a steady salary. And even if you have quite a bit, there is always someone down the road with more (unless you are Jeff Bezos). Compare your possessions with theirs, and you will find yourself again, discontent. In other words, gratitude based on material prosperity is problematic at best.

I once did a brief study of Thanksgiving in Paul's writings. In particular, I looked up every verse I could find where God was thanked for something specific. I didn't find one example of something material. What I found instead was gratitude for spiritual blessings.

He expressed thankfulness for how different churches received his message (Romans 6:17But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you.). He was thankful for how God gives us spiritual victories (I Corinthians 15:57But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.), and spiritual triumphs (II Corinthians 2:14Now thanks be unto God, which always causeth us to triumph in Christ, and maketh manifest the savour of his knowledge by us in every place.). He thanks God that he served God with a pure conscience (II Timothy 1:3I thank God, whom I serve from my forefathers with pure conscience, that without ceasing I have remembrance of thee in my prayers night and day;). That God had chosen those early believers to salvation (II Thessalonians 2:13But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth:). That they were partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light (Colossians 1:12Giving thanks unto the Father, which hath made us meet to be partakers of the inheritance of the saints in light:). That their faith was growing exceedingly, and that their charity abounded (II Thessalonians 1:3We are bound to thank God always for you, brethren, as it is meet, because that your faith groweth exceedingly, and the charity of every one of you all toward each other aboundeth;). Again and again, we see a clear focus on spiritual vs material blessings.

Training our eyes to perceive these blessings does a couple things. First, it puts us all on a level footing before God. Each of us have the exact same access to every spiritual blessing. They are all full and free. Second, no one can take them away. We have no reason to fear losing them because something goes wrong. And third, by focusing our attention on these sorts of blessings, our emotional gratitude becomes more focused on God as the source. Thankfulness wells up, and is directed toward Him!

The more we think about our spiritual blessings, the more clearly we will discern how good God is. And the more gratitude we will feel.

“The more we think about our spiritual blessings, the more clearly we will discern how good God is. And the more gratitude we will feel.”

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Thanksgiving is a great time of year to stop and reflect on our blessings, both material and spiritual, and turn our thoughts to God.

Level 3. Continual Gratitude

Now it is important to practice customary gratitude, those polite, little, habitual courtesies that help make everything go a bit better. It's also important to cultivate emotional gratitude, seeing the best in the good things people do for us, and expressing appreciation. Even more so if we can learn to shift our focus from material blessings to spiritual blessings. But there's another whole level of gratitude we haven't even looked at yet. And I believe this level is the highest and most important of the three.

Do a quick study on what the Bible says about giving thanks, and you can't help but notice verses like these:

Ephesians 5:20
Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ;

Colossians 3:17
And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.

I Thessalonians 5:18
In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

These verses use strong words: Give thanks always. In all things. Whatever you do. In everything. It's describing a state of continual gratitude. And clearly, this kind of gratitude is God's Will for us!

But here's the problem: it's easy to give thanks when things are going well. But it's hard when things are going bad. It's easy to give thanks when we're enjoying health, love, and prosperity. It's hard when we're sick, lonely, and poor. It's easy to be thankful when someone helps us. But its hard when someone hurts us.

The kind of gratitude described in these verses appears to be completely disconnected from the circumstances of our life. Good or bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick--it doesn't matter. It's continual. We don't give thanks because of what is or is not happening in our life, we give thanks because of something much deeper.

Now sometimes we encourage people to "trick" themselves into being thankful by changing how they look at a negative event. We say something like this:

  • Be thankful for things you don't have yet. It gives you something to look forward to.
  • Be thankful for things you don't know. It gives you an opportunity to learn them.
  • Be thankful for things you are not good at. It gives you room to improve.
  • Be thankful for challenges. They give you opportunities to come up with creative solutions.
  • Be thankful for mistakes. They can teach you important lessons.
  • Be thankful you're exhausted. It probably means you accomplished something.

In other words, if we're clever, we can trick our self into feeling gratitude. By figuring out how a negative circumstance might end up being good for us, we may be able to start feeling positive about it.

But in my experience, this doesn't really help much. Nor does it bring comfort to someone going through a tough time. And besides, it misses the point, doesn't it? Once we see the benefit of something, then it just becomes plain old emotional gratitude. We figured out how it's good for us, and now we're happy!

What we really want is to be thankful in all circumstances, regardless. Continuously. Whether we see the positives connected with it or not. Where our gratitude is not tied to the situation, but tied to who WE are as believers. It's a subtle difference, but it's powerful.

“What we want is to be thankful in all circumstances, regardless, because of who WE are as believers.”

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I'm not talking about wishful thinking, sticking our head in the sand, building castles in the sky, or any other kind of fanciful thinking. I'm simply talking about having a mind that is trained to think in terms of gratitude. It has to do with character.

Pause for a moment to consider Paul's great chapter on love (I Corinthians 13:4-74 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; 6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; 7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.).

Here, Paul reminds us love "is not easily provoked". Why? Because it "thinketh no evil". Those kinds of thoughts never make it into the mind. Love "rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth". There's plenty of evil in the world around us, but this mind stays focused on the good. Love "beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things". Not just good or easy things--all things. Love "never faileth". It never gives up--no matter what. That's powerful.

What we're talking about at this level is a kind of gratitude that goes far beyond our customary, and habitual responses. Though true gratitude will certainly practice those. And it goes far beyond the normal emotional appreciation of material, and even spiritual blessings. Though true gratitude certainly experiences strong feelings. We're talking about something deeper and more profound than either of these.

In Philippians 4:11-1211 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. 12 I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need., Paul wrote:

I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.


He's basically saying, what happens around me doesn't matter. I've learned to live a different way. To be content, thankful, happy, and peaceful, independent of my circumstances. Clearly, Paul had discovered the key to a life of continual gratitude.

Paul seems to have been so completely connected with the eternal, that the things of this world, were of no real importance to him. All the ups and downs we experience had simply faded away into insignificance.

He could live a life of continual gratitude because his life had become so intertwined with the life of God, he had begun to partake of the divine character. The character of a God who always sees the best, the possibilities, the potential, who puts the absolute best construction on everything. A God who lives this way because of who He is. A God willing to share His character with us!

If Paul learned this secret, we can too. And if we do, we'll discover it's the secret to unwavering joy, contentment, and peace.

I don't profess to fully understand this kind of gratitude. But I think it is worth pursuing. If we can learn it, thanksgiving will no longer be just a day on the calendar. It will be our way of life!



Comments

How important are each of these level of gratitude? What can we do to cultivate more gratitude in our life? What impact can gratitude have on our life? What about God's intervention in your life are you most thankful for? Leave a note in the comments below...

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Posted by Dan Vis on 11/22/22 - Coach
Nice summary of the memo Louise!
Posted by Louise P on 11/22/22
Customary Gratitude helps oil the wheels of civilisation, but it’s usually surface gratitude. Emotional Gratitude can be subjective, except where it involves Spiritual Gratitude and the focus is on God as our source of gratitude. Continual Gratitude is the most selfless - my life intertwined with God’s life! Blessed!
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/21/22 - Coach
Thank you Carla! We're working at it. I appreciate your "gratitude"! :)
Posted by Carla Phillips on 11/21/22
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Posted by Dan Vis on 11/05/21 - Coach
Wow, that's a powerful testimony Valerie. I especially appreciate your confirmation that "with each entry I experienced more gratitude!" Powerful.

I also appreciate you highlighting that paragraph from the reading, as it is a real key thought. The goal should be for gratitude to be our character, not just an occasional feeling or even a forced decision. But part of who we are--because we are like Him.

Great post! God is really good, isn't He?
Posted by Valerie Wise Burrell on 11/05/21 - Coach
Dan,
I decided while in morning prayer that gratitude would be my theme for the day. Then I read the Monday Memo and realize that it was the Holy Spirit who guided me to want to focus on GRATITUDE. I journaled the many things for which I am grateful and with each entry I experienced more gratitude!
Then I read these words:

He could live a life of continual gratitude because his life had become so intertwined with the life of God, he had begun to partake of the divine character.   The character of a God who always sees the best, the possibilities, the potential, who puts the absolute best construction on everything. A God who lives this way because of who He is. A God willing to share His character with us!

Paul discovered the joy of service for the LORD from a place of profound gratitude. Paul understood God's character of unconditional love that looked beyond his past and saw him in the future. The LORD is so positive with us. He never reminds us of our past sins. He always encourages us. His love is always reminding us of His promises to help us through every situation so we can attain to the heights He has set for us.
So thank you for this memo. I thank God that you followed His Spirit to remind us of all that we have for which to be grateful.
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/04/21 - Coach
Thank you Barbara. Glad this was helpful. We do have a lot to be thankful for, when we focus on all God's unchanging attributes, and the blessings those bring into our lives continually. Let's stay encouraged by Him!
Posted by Barbara E. LaRose on 11/04/21
A great post! It has given me so much more to be thankful for this coming holiday and for everyday. Everyday is a gift of God and for that I am grateful. I am truly grateful for all your posts Pastor Dan. I’m learning so much.   
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/01/21 - Coach
Amen! That's a nice cross reference there Kathy. Kind of links in my mind to Philippians 2:14-1514 Do all things without murmurings and disputings: 15 That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;. Being still sometimes, is a way of shining!
Posted by Kathy Rosenberger on 11/01/21
Reminds me of Psalms 46:10Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth. Be still and know I am God...
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/01/21 - Coach
Thanks Claudette! I like how you put it--that it's "easy to get sucked into being grateful for what we have" and how that "narrows our perspective of God's goodness". The more we can focus on things like the unchanging grace of God (vs our changing external circumstances), the more unshakeable our spirit of gratitude becomes. Nice post!
Posted by Claudette on 11/01/21
Thankful for this very sobering reminder of the importance of continuous gratitude because It's so easy to get sucked into being grateful for what we have and that really narrows our perspective of God's goodness.
What I am most grateful to God for is grace; He has been so patient with me, I can't even explain. And I am grateful that his grace extends to everyone who will accept.

Philippians 4:11,12Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. . . . I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. is a beautiful scripture; I've added to my verse pack.
Another great post, Dan;    I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Posted by Dan Vis on 12/11/20 - Coach
The one problem with a holiday like Thanksgiving is the implication we're only focus on being thankful on that day. I think your mom had it right Reno! :)
Posted by Reno on 12/10/20
I'm from New Zealand so we don't celebrate thanks giving as you do in the US, however I really enjoyed your article. My mum will always say that every day is blessing.
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/25/20 - Coach
That's indeed a great verse Lana, and right along the lines of what I was trying to get across. I think you put it together very nicely. Even in difficult times, we can be thankful for God's sustaining grace and blessing in our life. Nice post!
Posted by Lana Rose on 11/25/20
I really appreciated these thoughts on gratefulness. It reminds me of II Corinthians 12:9And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.. "My grace is sufficient for thee." No matter what is happening in our lives.
"Christ more than meets his need with grace to endure it. God does not alter circumstances to release us from trouble. Inward strength to endure is a far higher manifestation of divine grace. It is our privilege to enjoy inward perfect peace." BC
I believe it is this inward peace that you are talking about Dan. When we are grateful for the amazing goodness of God in everything and realize His watch care for us, and His desire to shape us into His image and be a part of our everyday life, it gives us that contentment and inward joy and peace. When our core is at peace nothing can "ruffle" our feathers!
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/18/20 - Coach
Nice summary of the key points Denise. Glad this was a blessing! And I hope it really does encourage a lot of us to be more thankful. This past year has been rough on a lot of people, but it's good to learn to be grateful even in difficult times...
Posted by Denise Buglino on 11/16/20
Good to reread this post and be reminded that our gratitude should be based on our spiritual blessings and not only the material ones, which can ebb and flow, and not how we should judge our well-being or our blessedness. God's mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22,23It is of the LORD's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. . . . They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.) and He is faithful in providing them without measure. (Psalms 84:11For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.)
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/10/19 - Coach
That's a powerful testimony Rhoda! God is constantly working in our hearts. What a blessed privilege that is. But so easy to overlook, must less appreciate properly. :)
Posted by Rhoda Forbes on 11/09/19
My heart is overflowing with gratitude for the many blessings and miracles that I have experienced and never acknowledged. For the guidance of the Holy Spirit through thoughts that come to mind, and for so many second chances. Just recently a thought came to me which I ignored and it was to my regret, it wasn't something very important but it showed me that I must adopt a more watching and praying attitude.
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/07/19 - Coach
That's a good practice to cultivate Cynthia! God has been good to us, and the more we learn to see those blessings, the happier we will be!
Posted by Cynthia Johnson on 11/07/19
Being grateful comes from being content and understanding how God has been good to us. I cultivate gratitude in my life by counting my blessings every time I'm driving and naming them one by one. Gratitude has continually shown me how much God loves me. I'm thankful to God for all the challenges that have propelled me to have a closer relationship with Him and to understand that all that matters in this earthly life is God .
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/05/19 - Coach
That's a powerful insight Qing! Thanks for sharing that. It definitely reinforces the idea gratitude is more about inward character than about things going ok around us. Let's all keep striving to climb higher!
Posted by Qing Ling on 11/05/19 - Coach
I'm sure I've read this article before but somehow it feels like I'm reading it anew! I love how you have connected thanksgiving with character. And how like character, thanksgiving is related to our internal substance rather than our external circumstances.
Colossians 4:2Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving; is one of my favourite verses because it strongly connects thanksgiving with prayer. So then for me every verse in the Bible that explains how prayer is a necessity of life, and not just a necessary command, but in fact a command for CONTINUAL prayer, is also at the same time saying how necessary a stance of Continual Thanksgiving is for our lives.
It is a health benefit to remain in a state of gratitude - Jeremiah 17:14Heal me, O LORD, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved: for thou art my praise.

It's cool also how you were able to show examples of how we can be grateful for spiritual blessings, instead of material things. It will take some effort to train my eyes/mind to focus on the spiritual blessings instead of the easier material ones. Challenge accepted!
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/05/19 - Coach
That's wonderful Carole that you are becoming more conscious of all these blessings all around us. Praise God for how He changes our heart in such a way we can enjoy life so much more fully!
Posted by Carole Bliss on 11/05/19
It may well be linked to age, but, as time goes by, I don't take things for granted.
It may be a flower I am looking at, birds feeding in our feeder, I am grateful fit the sight God has given me. I know His Spirit in me is helping me to be grateful throughout the year. I have so many reasons to thank and praise God each day. HE loves me and died for me, that says it all. Blessings, Carole
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/05/19 - Coach
Definitely Rhoda, we are blessed if we live in a land of peace. Of course the point of this article was that biblical gratitude is about having the kind of character that expresses gratitude even were we to live in a far more difficult place. May the Lord help us to cultivate that kind of spirit...
Posted by Rhoda Forbes on 11/04/19
Just watching the news makes me realise how much I have to be thankful for as how blessed I am. Refugees who are in a strange country, not being able to communicate easily, living in tents with young children and trying to keep the children and the washing dry on rainy days! What about children who are separated from their parents. Dear Father in heaven thank you for the priveledge of living in a peaceful country. Every day you hear of people who lost loved ones through no fault of their own, then I can only thank God for His hand of protection.
Posted by Dan Vis on 01/15/19 - Coach
Beautiful post Denise. Both poetic and potent! :)
Posted by Denise Buglino on 01/14/19
There is joy and rest in giving gratitude to Him from whom all blessings flow - both spiritual and material. It takes the focus off of us and off of others as the purveyors of what we need or want from life. Our very breath comes from God and without Him we cannot do anything. When we see what and who we are in the proper perspective we can appreciate more fully our AWESOME GOD.
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/29/18 - Coach
Glad this clicked for you David. I think you highlighted one of the most important sentences in this reading--about how tricking ourself is short of what can be. Thanks for calling attention to that.

I was definitely thinking about II Peter 1:3-43 According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue: 4 Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust., but not so much Psalms 37:4Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.. Excellent addition to the study. Appreciate your input on the article!
Posted by David Jeffrey Grabe on 11/29/18 - Coach
Greetings, all my FAST Friends, in the Remaining, Sustaining, & Uncomplaining Name of Jesus Christ our Lord & Saviour!

Thank you for this powerful post on the "3 Levels of Gratitude." I especially resonated with your statement, "if we're clever, we can trick our self into feeling gratitude. By figuring out how a negative circumstance might end up being good for us, we may be able to start feeling positive about it." It IS really missing the point, as you stated. I have caught myself doing this at times-both to myself and others! How disappointed I have been to have done that. This article truly opened "the eyes of my understanding"(Ephesians 1:18The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints,)to be enlightened, that I might know what is the hope of my calling." I'm called to give thanks in everything, as you said! "For all things are for your sakes, that the abundant grace, might through the thanksgiving of many redound(be to Someone's credit) to the glory of God." II Corinthians 4:15For all things are for your sakes, that the abundant grace might through the thanksgiving of many redound to the glory of God.
When you said, "He(Paul) could live a life of continual gratitude because his life had become so intertwined with the life of God, he had begun to partake of the divine character." It reflected what Peter said,
"According as His divine power has given unto us ALL things that pertain unto LIFE & GODLINESS(material & spiritual), through the knowledge of Him that has called us to glory & virtue" (II Peter 1:3According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:)

I see what your saying as I consider what the Psalmist says, "Delight thyself also in the LORD, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way unto the LORD; trust also in Him; and He shall bring it to pass." Psalms 37:4,5Delight thyself also in the LORD: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. . . . Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.
A heart after God. The "desires of my heart"-if it becomes "so interwined with His, through His indwelling Spirit (of Christ), will be "executing lovingkindness, judgment, and righteousness, in the earth: for in these things I delight, saith the LORD." (Jeremiah 9:23,24Thus saith the LORD, Let not the wise man glory in his wisdom, neither let the mighty man glory in his might, let not the rich man glory in his riches: . . . But let him that glorieth glory in this, that he understandeth and knoweth me, that I am the LORD which exercise lovingkindness, judgment, and righteousness, in the earth: for in these things I delight, saith the LORD.)
Thank you again Pastor Dan, and all my friends for your thoughts on this beautiful post!
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/28/18 - Coach
That's a good way to put it Ann. I think you described what I was trying to get at in about as simple words as you can get. Good job!

And those are great words ladies: "touching" (Valerie) and "refreshing" (Laurie). They help capture what a blessing gratitude can be in our life. :)
Posted by Laurie Wissink on 11/28/18 - Coach
Valerie that is exactly how I feel and have been so inspired by this. I've been sharing their contentment and gratitude with everyone I talk to and have been thanking God for every little thing, not only material, but spiritual. I find it very refreshing!
Posted by Valerie Wise Burrell on 11/28/18 - Coach
Laurie, this story is touching and it is a reminder to me of how much I have to be thankful for as others are struggling through each day. If they can be thankful after having lost everything, surely I can give thanks for what I have been given.
Posted by Ann Lavenburg on 11/28/18
I really like the delineation of levels of gratitude. We can go through life with a constant attitude of cheerfulness no matter what is happening around us. If someone tries to nail it down it usually sounds like thankfulness for "things" but in reality it is just a grateful heart for the goodness of God. Psalms 107:8,21,31Oh that men would praise the LORD for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men! . . . Oh that men would praise the LORD for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men! . . . Oh that men would praise the LORD for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men!
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/27/18 - Coach
What a testimony Laurie. Sounds like these couple must have a close walk with God. :) Thanks for sharing this real life example. Thank you for doing your part to minister to them!
Posted by Laurie Wissink on 11/27/18 - Coach
I saw an example of the level 3 continual gratitude on Thanksgiving. I live near Paradise, Ca. The town that burned down recently. Our community is housing some of the evacuees at our fairgrounds. I invited two couples to my home for dinner on Thanksgiving. They freely shared theirs and others experiences, but they didn't dwell on them. Instead they expressed over and over simple thankfulness for simple things: a place to charge their phone, a shower, blankets, a cot, even the ability to move the cot a few feet when the roof leaked when it rained. (They were not complaining about the leak.) They were thankful for the volunteers that have come from all over the country to help them. They were thankful for a doctor who came in to see them and prescribe them their medications. They were thankful for the food that is prepared for them each day. They just lost everything, including their jobs and they were not complaining about anything, but only thankful for everything! What a blessing to me! It put flesh and blood on Philippians 4:10-1210 But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly, that now at the last your care of me hath flourished again; wherein ye were also careful, but ye lacked opportunity. 11 Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. 12 I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. for me.
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/27/18 - Coach
Hard to imagine how we could feel anything but gratitude given all Jesus has done for us, don't you think Erica? Yes somehow we manage to find a way to grumble at times. :)
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/27/18 - Coach
So true Margaret. Remembering these things can definitely help us through difficult times. :)
Posted by Erica Cameron on 11/27/18
When I think of what God has done for me: He has given me life, His breath is in me. He sent His Spirit to work on my heart in the first place, then when I accepted Jesus, to fill me! Jesus gave up everything for me! He lived here on earth to show me how to live, even though He was insulted and lonely. He died a terrible death on the cross for me, and I can't even imagine the pain He went through, not just the physical pain, but the pain of becoming sin for me! Even then He was insulted! He has given me a robe of righteousness for me to wear! He has done everything for me, all I have to do is choose Him.   Yes that makes me very thankful.
Posted by Margaret S. Po’oi on 11/27/18
It may be difficult to be thankful when going through trial. However, we should remember that it is through trial that He refines us, burning away the dross of our lives to reveal His character of pure gold in us. Trials are hard. Yes. But a trial is never complete without a profound blessing at the end.
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/27/18 - Coach
Lot's of great points Carole. Unexpected joys, the cause of disappointments, learning to see beauty. Thank you!

Lois, what a powerful story. I can only imagine. It certainly does reframe our prosperity, doesn't it?

Glad this was helpful Rhona. Being a fulltime care-giver is not easy. We did that for some time with Vi's mom. But we also found blessings in it. Know FAST is just a click or two away if you ever need fellowship! :)
Posted by Rhona Brown on 11/27/18
The last few days I have been thinking about my life and I think the Lord was speaking to my heart on this very issue. While caring for my parents I find myself harboring resentment and being a miserable person. It is something I have been praying about with more infuses so this reading is timely for me. Thank you so much.
Posted by Lois Marie Prest on 11/26/18
We accepted 9 starving dirty orphans (all siblings) into the orphanage just a few weeks before Thanksgiving. They were delighted at their first glimpse of the lake and exclaimed excitedly, "lots of water!" Their joy at having adequate food every day and plenty of water to bathe every day was palpable. I became much more thankful for the basics of life that I often take for granted.
Posted by Carole Bliss on 11/26/18
A day is more meaningful when we take time to show others appreciation.
Unexpected joys are the best of all. It makes one so thankful. Its such a gift to be grateful for.
I love the continual gratitude way of life. Its easier as I grow older. One does not take things for granted.

When we expect things, we sent ourselves up for disappointment, when it doesn't take place.
If we see the beauty in everyday, and learn to be thankful, and by chance if something extra takes place, all the more to be grateful. We can always find reason to be grateful, God is with us, and we have the best reason to be thankful always.

Great message, thankful
Carole
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/26/18 - Coach
You are right Nancy. Praising God in good times isn't all the impressive. But when things are tough, the witness is amplified.

Great insight Paul. I like that word in connection with this topic, and the concept of a "first response" type of character. Very good thoughts!
Posted by Paul Carson on 11/26/18
As I boil down my understanding of gratitude, the word readiness comes to the fore. I Thessalonians 2:8So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us. speaks of a readiness to share what God through Christ is doing in and for us: instilling a love for others that is unnatural to the unregenerate heart. Readiness, for me, conveys a first response character developing quality. The practice of gratitude in things of least significance, reveals the wellsprings of the heart sanctified to (and by) God.
Posted by Nancy Welch on 11/26/18
Excellent! We should be praising God all the time. It is a powerful witness to hear spmeone praisimg God during tough times.
Posted by Dan Vis on 11/26/18 - Coach
Good thought Lynn. We do need God to open our eyes. And yes gratitude has a way of snowballing, doesn't it?


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